In ethical and political debates, most arguments are over prioritization of values (e.g., safety vs. freedom) instead of objective, indisputable right and wrong. People should debate and respect others’ priorities instead of assuming Hanlon’s Razor (ignorance->stupidity->malice).
You decide what meaning the events in your life have to you.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/you-can-find-meaning-in-whatever-happens-to-you
Asking where you see yourself in five years is a good exercise to determine both where you're going and what you want to be doing today to reach your desired future state.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/where-do-you-see-yourself-in-five-years