Your goals are yours to choose, and the best behaviors to achieve those goals are yours to decide based on those goals; as long as you don’t harm anyone, you are free to pursue them however you’d like.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/is-there-a-best-or-right-way-to-live
You can always find a reason to complain, and you can always find a reason to be grateful. The former will lead to a miserable life; the latter will lead to a more pleasant life.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/it-will-always-be-something
There are many misconceptions about how important growth is to your life, from what kinds of growth are possible, whose growth is meaningful, and how growth is meaningful even in the face of endings and death.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/misconceptions-about-growth-oriented-meaning