It can be tempting to compare yourself to others and feel bad about where you are in life, but don’t forget that you’re likely to only be looking at the best parts of others’ lives and the worst parts of yours.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/when-you-are-feeling-behind-in-life
You decide what meaning the events in your life have to you.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/you-can-find-meaning-in-whatever-happens-to-you
Asking where you see yourself in five years is a good exercise to determine both where you're going and what you want to be doing today to reach your desired future state.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/where-do-you-see-yourself-in-five-years