If you get too self-conscious and begin to succumb to perceived peer pressure instead of doing what you want to do in life, remember that no one really cares and that people are focused mostly on themselves. Will you really change the course of your life over something that people might talk about for maybe a day (if they even notice)?
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/no-one-cares-and-thats-a-good-thing
You can always find a reason to complain, and you can always find a reason to be grateful. The former will lead to a miserable life; the latter will lead to a more pleasant life.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/it-will-always-be-something
There are many misconceptions about how important growth is to your life, from what kinds of growth are possible, whose growth is meaningful, and how growth is meaningful even in the face of endings and death.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/misconceptions-about-growth-oriented-meaning