Honesty is the best policy...unless you are hiding Jews during the holocaust, negotiating, or comforting someone during times of great fear and stress. In those situations, honesty will get people killed, get you taken advantage of, or worry them more about things they cannot control. Like all ethics, openness and honesty are situational.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/the-ethics-of-honesty-and-openness
You decide what meaning the events in your life have to you.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/you-can-find-meaning-in-whatever-happens-to-you
Asking where you see yourself in five years is a good exercise to determine both where you're going and what you want to be doing today to reach your desired future state.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/where-do-you-see-yourself-in-five-years