Because accusing someone of being a hypocrite is one the best ways to put down their argument, people often frame hypocrisy as "first they said [one thing]" followed by "then they said [a contradicting thing]"—often committing a number of logical errors such as "they" being different people being lumped together into a monolith.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/they-are-not-necessarily-hypocrites
You can always find a reason to complain, and you can always find a reason to be grateful. The former will lead to a miserable life; the latter will lead to a more pleasant life.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/it-will-always-be-something
There are many misconceptions about how important growth is to your life, from what kinds of growth are possible, whose growth is meaningful, and how growth is meaningful even in the face of endings and death.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/misconceptions-about-growth-oriented-meaning