Scarcity is when there is a low supply of something (often, in relationship to the demand for it); in life, scarcity results in greater value or significance being placed on a person, place, event, or thing because of how rare it is.
You decide what meaning the events in your life have to you.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/you-can-find-meaning-in-whatever-happens-to-you
Asking where you see yourself in five years is a good exercise to determine both where you're going and what you want to be doing today to reach your desired future state.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/where-do-you-see-yourself-in-five-years