If you need a better attitude to improve your life but you need a better life to improve your attitude, you need to solve for this chicken-or-egg problem to get going in the right direction.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/chicken-or-egg-problem-good-attitude-or-good-life
You decide what meaning the events in your life have to you.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/you-can-find-meaning-in-whatever-happens-to-you
Asking where you see yourself in five years is a good exercise to determine both where you're going and what you want to be doing today to reach your desired future state.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/where-do-you-see-yourself-in-five-years