Should you socialize your goals? It depends; will that help hold you accountable, will it give you the reward associated with it without having to do anything, or will it discourage you when the critics and naysayers show up?
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/when-to-socialize-your-goals
You decide what meaning the events in your life have to you.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/you-can-find-meaning-in-whatever-happens-to-you
Asking where you see yourself in five years is a good exercise to determine both where you're going and what you want to be doing today to reach your desired future state.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/where-do-you-see-yourself-in-five-years