When listening to analysis from others about the world around you, be careful not to be misled by arrogant, eloquent speakers conflating facts, opinions, their recommendations for others, and what they will actually do.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/facts-conclusions-recommendations-and-actions
You decide what meaning the events in your life have to you.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/you-can-find-meaning-in-whatever-happens-to-you
Asking where you see yourself in five years is a good exercise to determine both where you're going and what you want to be doing today to reach your desired future state.
https://yourmeaninginlife.com/blog/where-do-you-see-yourself-in-five-years